Sunday 24 June 2012

Candle Suicides



After 5 weeks of living here, I've come into contact with a disturbing phenomenon.  The mother of someone we know had to bear some terrible insults from a neighbour.  The next morning, she pours oil over herself at 4:30 and sets herself on fire.  When she was rushed to the hospital, the doctor said that she only had 10% chance of survival.  She passed away the next day.

6 days later, we arrive at the school site at 7am when one of our skilled workers comes up to me and says that he has some serious family business and he needs to leave right away.  He jumped on the auto to travel for another 45min to get home.  The next day I heard that his whole family rushed to the hospital at a nearby city.  Another case of 3rd degree burns, but this time the 19-year-old had 5% chance of survival.  The worker’s wife’s niece was caught in a kitchen “accident” and whole house burned down.  Her 3-month-old baby boy was rescued out of the fire in time, so he just suffered from breathing in smoke.  This young mother was conscious at the hospital and apparently she kept saying, “I don’t know why I did it.”  Her death was filed as an accidental death, but she most likely committed suicide.  I can’t help but wonder what prompted her to take such drastic measures.  In-law issues?  Abusive husband?  Postpartum depression?  I don’t even know if most people in the countryside know what postpartum depression is.

How do we go about addressing such issues?  Why do people commit suicide so easily?  Is it because they believe in rebirth?  Is it because they lack a strong understanding support network?  Once again, I have questions, but no answers.  All I know is that we need to educate children from a young age the value of life and share with them the hope that is in Christ.  The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came to give us life and life more abundantly.  



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